
Doing all the things & still feel unseen
Doing all the things & still feel unseen
You're showing up.
You're saying yes.
You're keeping the house going, the work ticking, the people happy.
From the outside, you look like you've got it all together.
Inside...
You're exhausted, frustrated & you feel invisible.
You keep wondering how you can be doing so much & still feel so bloody stuck in the same place.
Lets be honest.
You've been in survival mode for so long it's become your normal.
You've built your entire life around keeping the peace, holding the pieces & doing what needs to be done, for everyone else.
But the part that no-one talks about is how that same survival wiring, that's the very same reason you struggle to show up for yourself.
So it's not because you're lazy (because even though you barely have time to stop you still sometimes think you're lazy, don't you?)
It's not because you're unmotivated, (even though sometimes the social doom scroll can make you feel like that).
It's just because deep down visibility doesn't feel safe.
You learned to stay quiet.
To make yourself small.
To get on with things without taking up space.
So now, with the business, the goals, the deep knowing you're meant for more, those patterns still play out.
You hide behind the doing.
You get your teeth into the busy.
You're always working, but not making progress.
You feel seen as useful.
But never seen as you.
Lets name it!
This is a nervous system response.
The deep rooted pattern I call the wallflower. She's the woman who blends into the background, quietly waiting to be chosen, who questions whether her voice matters, whether she matters. While everyone else around her is out there doing their thing.
But of course there's good news, You don't have to fight your way through this.
You don't have to fix yourself.
You just need space to reconnect with what's yours.
Your truth.
Your desires.
Your pace.
Your power.
That's exactly where I come in.
Are you ready to find your way back into your voice?
If you're done doing it all & still feeling invisible, then lets shift the pattern.
Book a free 20 minute clarity call with me.
We'll take a grounded look at where your energy's going, what's holding you back, & how you can start showing up, consistently & confidently, as you.
Book your call now.
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I can't wait to chat,
big hugs,
Hayley